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Proper spelling/grammar, no body compliments or 'ur sexi! One word messages also tend not to be a hit, but sometimes if your pic/profile are phenomenal they CAN pay off.
Try and bring up their interests or likes/dislikes, or even just start off with something that will create a conversation like, "In a world where cheese was money, what would take the place of cheese? Some women prefer a simple "what's up" other prefer a paragraph that lets them know you actually read their profile.
They don't even know me and they are starting that... There's nothing more cringe-worthy than body compliments or pet names in initial messages.
That is a sure fire sign of I want to charm the pants off you as quickly as I can... It almost comes across as patronizing to me, like when people call you 'dear' but they're barely older than you. I prefer humour, personally, but not everyone will.
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